Last week at the Tae Kwon Do school my daughter and husband attend they had what they called buddy days. Students could bring a guest to any class on three different days. While my daughter certainly enjoys doing Tae Kwon Do with her Dad, she had an even better time when her friends came to classes with her. That got me thinking about how much fun a vacation can be when you include friends. Sure, it can be a bit of a hassle getting everyone’s schedules to mesh, but I’ve got some tips for you this week.
5 things to keep in mind when considering inviting friends or family on your next vacation
#1 – plan your trip first – that may sound selfish, but in all honesty it’s much less stressful. Trying to get your own family to agree on a destination can be a struggle in itself, but when you add more people to the decision making it can be even more difficult. I recommend getting the details ironed out and your own trip under deposit before you invite others to come along. Sure, this may mean that all of your besties won’t be able to join you, or may not want to. On the other hand, if you wait until the whole group agrees on the destination, an itinerary, and specific dates you’ll never go anywhere.
#2 – Everyone wants to go! That is, until they have to start paying for the trip. Don’t get upset or discouraged when your initial group of interested travelers dwindles as the deposit or final payment date gets closer.
#3 – Set clear boundaries. People need to know what is expected of them. Are you one to plan every detail of the trip for every participant, down to restaurant reservations? If so, your travel companions need to know that you expect them to participate fully in the activities planned. Maybe you plan on doing your own thing and only getting together for dinner. That’s important for the group to know as well, so they can make their own plans.
#4 – Plan at least one group dinner, photo session or other activity to celebrate your vacation as a group. While you don’t need to be joined at the hip the entire time, you do want some time together, or you wouldn’t have traveled as a group.
#5 – Have fun! Whether trekking the Inca Trail or renting a villa in Tuscany, you’re on vacation! You’re surrounded by friends, family and possibly new friends. Take a few moments to count your blessings, raise a glass and toast the occasion. Perhaps if things are going well, it can also be the start of a discussion on the next destination.
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We gathered as we disembarked the ship in Grand Turk and traveled just a few minutes to the Turks and Caicos National Museum. September of 2017 brought devastation to the island of Grand Turk with not one, but two major hurricanes, Irma and Maria. The island is still recovering. It was our chance to help the Museum in their recovery. It’s amazing what nearly 50 pairs of hands can do in a few hours. We painted the newly constructed fence, we painted the cistern, the gazebo, weeded the garden and several of the men in the group worked together to build a new gate.
















Having already participated in the other impact activities offered during our stay in Puerto Plata I was very pleased to see a new activity on the list, and it involved my love for coffee, it was a win win. There is nothing I love more to start my day than a cup (or more) of strong black coffee, so when offered the chance to see the process from soil to cup I jumped at the chance. We started our day with a ride through the Dominican Republic countryside and up into the mountains to visit an EcoLodge. Together our group of less than 40 worked alongside some of the locals who are employees by the coffee industry in the DR. Together we planted coffee beans, 700 to be exact! Once they reach a few months old they will be transported from the location we visited to the coffee plantation further from town. Within a few years the plants will begin to produce the coffee beans, the 700 we planted are able to produce approximately 1 ton of coffee per year, and 2.5 million cups of coffee over the lifetime of the plant! That should about cover the consumption for my immediate family! 












