We’ve all seen the spoofs of the “ugly American” tourist sticking out like sore thumb while traveling abroad. This week I’ll share a few tips to help you blend in while you visit a foreign country. Just a hint – stop and read this before you run out and buy new shiny white sneakers!

How to look like a local when you travel.

I’ve said for years while traveling through Europe that you can most easily identify the Americans by their shoes. Leave those new white sneakers and flip flops at home and opt for a more European style of shoe.

Unless you are actually at the Gym, you shouldn’t be in workout clothes, that’s a sure sign that you’re an American.

When in doubt, overdress. It’s better to show up for an event or even to the local pub a bit overdressed rather than under dressed. Also if you’re trying to decide on the neon yellow sweater or the black one, stick to the muted or more neutral color scheme for your wardrobe. Leave those logo hoodies at home!

Use public transportation! Travel from place to place like the locals do, it’s a great way to get a feel for a destination you have not visited before.

Respect the local culture and customs, know that when visiting certain sites that you will need to have your knees and shoulders covered. If you don’t, prepare to be turned away.

Brush up on the language, sports teams and politics before you visit. You will get a much better reception if you ask “Parli Inglese” rather than “Do you speak English”

Please remember this tip if you are struggling with the local language “Volume has nothing to do with comprehension” Ann Forehand. Yep, the sage advice of my Mother, if someone doesn’t understand what you’re trying to communicate repeating it louder isn’t going to help.

Hopefully these tips will ease some of your anxiety about whether or not you’ll fit in while traveling. Should you have specific questions about the area you are visiting please reach out.